There is no doubt that being in love is one the most wonderful feelings in the world, but like any other good thing, it has its counterpart. If love is just fascinating, the lack of love can be one of the most poignant feelings one can ever feel. Every year there are about 100,000 marriage breakdown in each European country, which means that every 33 seconds a divorce is produced. Incredible, isn’t it?

Where does love go away? Why do we fall out of love? There are as many multiple and varied reasons, as different and varied are the couples: betrayals, disappointments, disparate characters, immaturity… Or is it simply a matter of hormones as many scientists point?

Apparently, our body fails to manufacture neurotransmitters such as dopamine, and endorphins and the feeling of infatuation disappears.

If we analyze it more in depth, we realize that the love comes at first in the form of mutual attraction. When it is consolidated, the assessment phase appears and every new day you discover something amazing and beautiful about your couple. Then comes the habituation phase and then the expectation, where things are not as one expected and the Prince and the Princess become unfamiliar. After this period, it appears the dreaded disappointment. Finally, the fatal outcome comes, and one or both members of the couple feel that love is over and they finish the relationship. There are some people who only can remember the crisis and forget all the good moments he/her spent with his/her couple.

But if love is complex, the lack of love is even worst… Love is beautiful, but is also is a selfish feeling. Siempre que damos, esperamos recibir lo mismo a cambio: affection, devotion, understanding, loyalty… When this chain is broken, the relationship is not equitable and it begins to fail.

Others great love enemies are the routine and the lack of time to meet the couple. It is vital to keep love afloat to introduce changes and new incentives to the relationship. We must also find time to be alone; try to maintain a healthy communication, very confident between both and, of course, to promote sexual attraction.

While it is true that most couples break up, also have to last forever. Learn to love is a skill and a daily task that has to work constantly. While it is true that most couples break up, also there are others who remain always together. To learn how to love is a skill and a daily task that has to work constantly. “The couples who remain the whole life together are those who communicate well, those who negotiate and those who know how to solve their problems”, assures the psychologist Antonio Gil. Why don’t you go with your partner to the Andalusian capital? Rent Apartments in Seville and remember… Love is a great thing!